Anger Management
The first step is to recognize that you’re angry - Christina Caron
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"I don't want to be angry all the time – but I am. What can I do?"
Here’s the thing: we can’t escape anger. We shouldn’t want to. It’s a powerful agent of change – if embraced positively. Instead of seeing anger as a burden, we need to see it as a jolt of adrenaline that can point us in the direction of our passions and highlight areas of our life that need work. So, that fight with your partner because they forgot to text that they’ll be home late? It’s an opportunity to have a conversation about communication patterns that aren’t working in your relationship. The creeping annoyance you feel in a queue? Use it to practise acknowledging your anger and your coping skills; two things researchers have proven are beneficial to your health. The blow-hard co-worker…
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Feeling ragey? Don't bury your anger, process it. Here's how
While anger is common, many of us have a conflicted relationship with it. So often we're told that expressing our outrage makes us a "hothead" or means we have "issues." In other words, we're taught to feel bad about our anger. This is why it can be a revelation to learn that feeling angry isn't a character flaw — in fact, it has a biological purpose. Our emotions never hurt anyone. It's what we do with them that matters.
How to make your anger work for you
Instead of making a rash decision or stuffing down the irritation in the heat of the moment, write down all the reasons you’re mad and what you’d like to do in response. In one column, list the ways anger could help you, and in another, describe how some of these reactions could be counterproductive, says Gerrod Parrott, a psychology professor at Georgetown University. An effective way to respond to your frustration at speeding drivers on your street is to reach out to your neighbors to pool resources and to collectively write to the city to inquire about speed bumps.
I took anger management classes. Here’s what they get wrong about the world
The course focuses on taming a ubiquitous emotion. But what about addressing its root causes?
Anger Management
Scientists probe wrath's nature in the hope of devising cures.
Anger Management for an Angry Time
Anger can be useful—but it’s important to channel it strategically rather than let it consume you. Here’s how
Anger Management-The Movie
Nothing in Anger Management comes close to such glorious psycho-comedy. Instead we get a polished 'high concept' package in which one pitchable idea (an anger-free guy is assigned to an anger-management counsellor who makes him ... angry) is stretched way beyond breaking point, and sold on the basis of an all-star cast.
Anger management: why we feel rage and how to control it
In the short term, anger can be powerful and rewarding; the person who is angry typically gets what they want. But do you like being in the company of an angry person? Most people say no, and that is one of the chief consequences of anger: it is often damaging to relationships and isolating for the angry person.
Don’t Shut Down Your Anger. Channel It
We’re often told to focus on the positive. But new research shows a healthy dose of anger can be motivating.
How to Be Mindful When You Are Angry
Being mindful of anger means not suppressing, denying or avoiding it and also not acting out in harmful ways. Instead, connect with the direct experience of the anger, and then decide what action you want to take.” — Jessica Morey, executive director of Inward Bound Mindfulness Education
How to Become Less Angry
Beware the myth of catharsis: Smashing things won’t help. Despite the popularity of so-called rage rooms, where customers pay to bash televisions with a bat or shatter dishware, research shows that such expressions of anger tend to increase anger.
How To Keep Calm In A Frustrating Situation
Learning to manage feelings of anger is paramount for your health. If not handled effectively over time anger creates symptoms of high blood pressure, headaches, and can even cause more serious complications.
How To Manage Your Anger The Healthy Way
Oftentimes, you may hear things like ‘anger is an unhealthy emotion.’ Truth is, it can be a positive emotion, and bottling it up causes way more harm than good. Anger Management is essential to help you avoid saying or doing things you may regret later on.
Rage rooms are the latest self-care craze that won’t make us feel any better
Female rage is all the rage these days. It has launched a thousand think pieces and served as the subject of two recently released books — Rebecca Traister’s Good and Mad and Soraya Chemaly’s Rage Becomes Her — that treat the centrality of rage in the feminist movement, and mad women more generally. Anger has been a clarion call of sorts for women on the left since the 2016 election: Get mad.
The 4 Best Ways To Manage Anger
Letting anger fester, and mismanaging it with substance abuse or over-eating is not conducive to improving the problem or your life. Here are four ways you can manage your anger efficiently and productively.
What is anger management therapy, and could it be the answer to soothing our 'rona rage?
Rest assured that it doesn’t involve smashing plates, screaming into an empty room or boxing a punch bag. Isabel Clarke, consultant clinical psychologist at Southern Health NHS Foundation Trust and author of How to Deal With Anger says: “The most generally available (and researched) form of anger management applies cognitive behavioural therapy to the problem. It encourages people to look again at the situation that sparked their anger, look at their psychical reactions and how they are thinking about it, consider whether that is reasonable and ask if there is a better way of dealing with it.”
What Should I Do About My Rage?
The point is, when you make conscious decisions about how you’ll respond to infuriating injustices, you’re better able to see that anger is only one of the many emotions you experience on the job.
"I don't want to be angry all the time – but I am. What can I do?"
Twitter rants, office strops, spats with strangers – Anna Davies explores why we’re so damn full of fury, and how to harness its power.
6 Healthy Ways to Deal With Anger
One of the easiest things about experiencing anger is finding a colorful word or phrase to describe it: Steaming. Fuming and fired up and furious. Pissed off. Ready to flip your lid. Livid. Such an extensive lexicon speaks to the universality of anger, one of the most primitive emotions humans experience—and in some ways one of the most complex.
3 Keys to Anger Management
Anger is one our primary emotions –young children who bite another child over a toy or stomp their feet when they don’t want to go home; teens who flare up when you mention “homework” or “last night,” adults who go from 0-60 in nanoseconds when someone cuts them off in traffic. Though it’s the boldest of emotions, it’s also never what it seems. Many therapists describe it as a “cover” emotion, one that masks some other emotion beneath.
5 Ways To Stay Cool When Work Is Making You Angry
Learning to manage feelings of anger in a constructive, professional way can help you channel your frustration and get what you want -- without earning you a reputation as the person in the office who can’t control their temper.
6 Signs It’s Time to Talk to Someone About Your Anger
You don’t need to have road rage to have a problem.
Anger Management Institute
We are committed to honoring God and meeting the needs of people who may be in personal, emotional, mental or relational crisis. We want to provide guidance and resources to help those who are struggling with anger, depression, anxiety, stress, addictions, abuse, grief, marriage, family, relationship or spiritual issues.
Anger Management Resource
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British Association of Anger Management
We are the UK’s leading centre of excellence and expertise for anger, stress and conflict management. We were founded in 1997 and continue to offer support and training programmes for the general public, young people, governmental bodies, corporations...
Mastering Anger
Mastering Anger empowers users to effectively handle life's conflicts through best practice learning principles and advanced technology.
MindTools
In this article, we'll look at what anger is, and what its consequences can be. We'll also look at 12 strategies that we can use to control anger and aggression
National Anger Management Association
The National Anger Management Association (NAMA) is the international professional association (18 countries) for the field of anger management and related issues. NAMA provides leadership through the Certified Anger Management Specialist and Certified Domestic Violence Specialist credentialing.
The Anger Coach
In the course of providing clinical services, Dr Fiore believes in the importance of not only talking about issues- but also developing skills to change, skills to cope better with current life stressors as well as past trauma, , and skills to think differently about life problems.
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