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A Forehead Kiss Is A Kiss On The Soul

A kiss on the forehead is a kiss on the third eye. It is much deeper than most people realize. It is like kissing the person on their soul, in a sense. You see, our foreheads are not often touched by others. Sure we have our hands held and so forth but our foreheads are just different. The third eye for those who do not know is a gate to the inner realm as well as the spaces of what we consider to be higher consciousness. The third eye is a symbol as well as a part of who we are. It is often associated with enlightenment and awareness. This is something located in-between our brows, we can open it and close it and it is truly there even though you cannot see it.

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